To get your true love, never be afraid to listen to your heart.
Sometimes the right person is sooooo close, but we waste our time finding him/her "outside".
It is not wrong, though--sometimes our "waste of time" worths it ....if by doing so, we will learn and appreciate our lover much better.
But, if you may choose, better we realize it before it's late....or before it is TOO late--till we hurt someone else (who also really love us).
However, here you are..
love is a mytery....
love can be pleasing as well as hurting......
Regards.